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What Is An Abusive Relationship?

– Identifying The Signs Of Abuse When you are in an abusive relationship, it does not just involve physical abuse. It can be emotional, verbal and sexual in nature. This can occur in any type of relationship, be it between two people or between the family members.

It can happen to anyone and it is best to recognize what the signs are to avoid getting in the middle and getting hurt in the process.The ex back system has been designed keeping in mind such people. Physical abuse is anything that involves hitting, punching, pulling hair, kicking, slapping, pinching harshly and even just tightening of the hand against a limb.

This can happen between one person who is dominant and want to subdue the other who is weaker both physically and emotionally. The urge to ‘dominate’ should never be confused with nurturing, especially if the result is feeling pain. Sexual abuse can involve anything from humiliating sexually the other up to forcing another to have a sexual relation despite a refusal from the other.

The refusal should never just involve saying “no” it can be a shaking of the head or a body language. Date rape is sexual abuse. Getting someone drunk to perform sexually is sexual abuse. This does not necessarily just mean an abuse of a girl either; the men can also be sexually abused. Emotional abuse is anything that can range from teasing to full out bullying. This does not even have to involve just two people. It can be a relationship with peers who humiliate a classmate because of their race, religion, sexual orientation or looks. Putting down another, scaring another or betraying another is a form of emotional abuse.

Anything that will hurt another’s feelings resulting to their self-esteem lowering is a form of abuse. Verbal abuse involves saying words that can hurt another emotionally. The worst thing about both the verbal and emotional abuse is that there is no physical proof that this is happening. In fact, many would laugh it off and only feel bad a long time later when the words are recalled. This is not even an accepted defense in any court of law should the continued abuse result to violence. If you are in any kind of relationship where abuse is present, it is best to get out of it.

Realize that you do not deserve any type of abuse no matter how it is justified. Nobody deserves to be put down in any way, physically or emotionally.